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The Journey of Personal Intimacy

There’s something about Mombasa. The thought of an evening watching the sunset color the sky with the dim oranges, as the cool breeze gently whispers across your face and the tides moving in their rhythmic fashion, is always captivating. Such thoughts are what motivate the ardent traveler to fasten their seat belts for the journey ahead. The journey usually starts with very high excitement, sometimes even braving an early morning before the break of dawn and taking a myriad of photographs to quench the anticipation. By the time one is in Mtito Andei or Voi, most passengers are usually asleep, weary-eyed, with their cameras in their bags. The excitement sometimes dies a natural death. Journeys have that effect. Spiritual journeys, nonetheless.

A new believer was sharing with me how she wakes up at 3 AM every morning to spend quiet time with God. We shared how over time, that sense of fervor can wax cold. The justifications we dare give are usually a handful, but in truth, our hands are empty. When we look back at the mountain experiences we have had with God, it can be easy to be nostalgic. But nostalgia should move beyond itself to action.

I was regurgitating (and trying to memorize) Paul’s words in Philippians 2:12-13,

 “Therefore my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling for it is God who works in you both to will and to work for his good pleasure.”

Knowing his end was near, Paul must have wanted his “beloved” (as we are Christ’s) not to be merely nostalgic. He was giving them a motivation for their present situation that would be necessary for their future destination. It struck me in his mention of the words “own salvation” and the Spirit of God drew me to those words because it was important for me to remember that it is my own salvation, my own soul that I must be the most cautious about, because it is this sense of personal devotion that can result in life-giving service. In our bid to cultivate spiritual intimacy with God, there are many justifications to the contrary: In our techie, knowledge-driven world full of demeaning pleasures and dreadful distractions, we can have a handful of excuses. Other times, it is actually important things that may pose as roadblocks along the journey: relationships with loved ones, participating in a Church ministry, working to put food on the table or even pursuing our dreams. Yet Matthew Henry’s commentary on this verse reminds us that

We must not only work at our salvation by doing something now and then about it; but we must work out our salvation by doing all that is to be done, and persevering to the end. Salvation is the great thing that we should mind and set our hearts upon.

Over my few years of salvation, I have noticed a trend. When I grow cold in my personal devotion to the Lord, I create a pathway for sin, worry and restlessness. Most times when this happens, my sense of spiritual clarity and vision gets clouded and I can get to a place of looking at my relationship with Christ as a set of rules to be ticked. I am reminded in such times that “Faith in Christ is ultimately expressed as obedience to Christ . . . Not in the sense of following rules but of being completely devoted to him” (IVP New Testament Commentary). I am convicted that intimacy with God has to be central to my journey and in order to do this I should:
  •  Maintain a consistent quiet time with God (Ps. 42:1-2). 
  • Feed my spirit and starve my flesh (Romans 8:13-15). 
  • Obey even as much as I sacrifice my time, gifts and glory (2 Jn. 1:6). 
  • Desire to know more of God – I can never have enough of God (Ps. 119; 1 Pet. 2:2).
  • Realize that hunger breeds more hunger for God (Matthew 5:6, Ps. 84:2).
Over the course of my relationship with my fiancée, I have learnt that I need to be intentional in cultivating the love between us. Some seasons no doubt will be busy, seasons of pain or hilltops of happiness, but I have realized that intentionality and commitment go a long way in breeding a Christ-centered, purposeful, fun and joyous sense of intimacy. When feelings are not motivation enough, intentionality and commitment are. The same applies in our journey with God.

Other Resources in relation to cultivating intimacy with God:


A Sermon by John Piper Long for the Pure Milk of the Word 

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